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Creating a Home That Feels Like a Sanctuary

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Creating a Home That Feels Like a Sanctuary

Creating Your Sanctuary

After years of living in spaces that felt chaotic and cluttered, I finally created a home that feels like a true sanctuary. Here’s how I did it—and how you can too.

The Philosophy: Less Is More

Before organizing anything, I decluttered ruthlessly. The truth is, you can’t organize clutter—you just move it around.

The Questions I Asked

For every item, I asked:

  1. Do I use this regularly?
  2. Does it bring me genuine joy?
  3. Would I buy this again today?

If the answer wasn’t a clear yes, it went.

Room by Room Transformation

The Entryway

This sets the tone for your entire home. I added:

  • A console table with a tray for keys and mail
  • Hooks for bags and jackets
  • A small plant for life
  • Good lighting

The Living Room

My rules:

  • Every item must have a home
  • Surfaces stay mostly clear
  • Cozy textures everywhere (throws, pillows)
  • Plants in every corner

The Bedroom

This room is for sleep and rest only. I removed:

  • The TV
  • My work laptop
  • Exercise equipment
  • Clutter on the nightstand

I added:

  • Blackout curtains
  • Quality bedding (linen sheets changed my life)
  • Soft lighting (no overhead at night)
  • A diffuser with lavender

The Kitchen

The heart of the home deserved special attention:

  • Clear countertops (appliances live in cabinets)
  • Everything in matching containers
  • A dedicated coffee station
  • Fresh flowers or herbs always

The Bathroom

Spa vibes on a budget:

  • White towels (hotel-style)
  • Minimal products displayed
  • Candles and plants
  • Organized under-sink storage

The Systems That Keep It Tidy

Daily Habits

  • Morning: Make bed, quick kitchen tidy
  • Evening: 10-minute reset before bed
  • Weekly: One room deep clean

The One-In-One-Out Rule

For every new item that enters, something must leave. This prevents accumulation.

A Place for Everything

Every single item has a designated home. This makes tidying quick and mindless.

Affordable Upgrades That Made a Difference

Not everything requires a big budget:

  • New hardware on cabinets ($50)
  • Matching hangers in the closet ($30)
  • Good lighting via lamps ($100)
  • Plants everywhere ($50)
  • Quality basics like white towels and sheets ($150)

The Unexpected Benefits

Since creating my sanctuary:

  • I sleep better
  • I’m more productive working from home
  • I actually enjoy hosting
  • My anxiety has decreased
  • I spend less money (I’m more intentional about what I bring in)

Starting Your Transformation

If you’re overwhelmed, start small:

  1. Choose one drawer — Declutter and organize it completely
  2. Feel the satisfaction — Let that motivate you
  3. Move to a cabinet, then a room
  4. Maintain before expanding — Don’t move on until systems are working

What’s your biggest home organization challenge? Let me know!